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Upscale Lifestyle Events Behind Closed Doors events are known as the premier "on-premise" lifestyle event in the NY metro area.  Through a careful process of selection, we successfully congregate an amazingly sexy group of young, attractive, open-minded and intelligent people with a common interest -- to explore and indulge their erotic pleasures in a shared space. We are extremely welcoming to beginners and provide the perfect springboard for exploring your sexuality.
Intriguing Locations Behind Closed Doors events take place at the most upscale locations in New York City including primate loft spaces, penthouses, and private clubs.  An important part of producing a sexy soiree is finding a venue which adds to the eroticism. By creating ever-changing, safe, and clean erotic playgrounds, our guests can engage in an unbiased, sensually liberating and respectful atmosphere.
Entertainment Our carefully selected erotic entertainment may include dancers, body artists, sensual body-workers, tantric experts, or lapdance instructors.  These professionals are masters of their respective disciplines and thrill the senses in ways you can't begin to imagine!  The excitment and wonder that result from the incredible entertainment contribute to the full Behind Closed Doors erotic experience.
Adult Film Stars & Celebs Behind Closed Doors has a phenomenal reputation in both the swinging and adult entertainment communities.  Events are often hosted by porn stars like Justine Joli, giving guests a chance to meet and interact with some of the hottest stars in the industry.  We've even had a few surprise mainstream celebrities drop by!

Reviews from Guests:

[from a couple who attended our 2010 Masquerade party]
Thank you for hosting a great party. We both had a really fun time (maybe you could tell) The crowd was sexy, sophisticated, young and ready for real fun.  We are definitely looking forward to your next party.

[from a first-timer couple who attended our 2010 New Year's Eve party]
We just wanted to say thank you for such a wonderful first experience with the scene. The party was so comfortable and how easy going and well informed you guys were made both of us so at ease. The night brought up a lot of things we needed to discuss but such a great environment made us twice as eager and excited for our next experience and we can't wait to explore more next time. We had to run out last night to catch a train and didn't see you guys to thank you but really, thank you. It was such a nice, comfortable, cool experience. Also, thanks for taking a moment to look for A's wallet. We appreciate how caring and attentive you both are. Again, Thank you.

[from a couple who attended our 2010 New Year's Eve party]
Hey guys!  GREAT JOB LAST NIGHT!!!!!! You really throw a quality party, (and we've been to a few of the NYC other partys!) It was great that you guys introduced yourselves to everyone, (and it was nice to meet you ). We will definately be attending future events! :)

from a first-timer couple who attended our June 20 - Summer Lovin' party]
Overall, we had an unbelievable experience at this party. We had been warned that a lot of on-premise parties are full of pressure and snooty people - but SoS wasn't like that at ALL. I never once felt pressured or weird about the situation - in fact, I was surprised at how liberating the whole thing felt! It was so fun to meet other, sexy, young, like-minded people who were down for a good time. We will definitely be back to SoS.


[from a first-timer single female who attended our Summer Lovin' and subsequently attended our Freedom Party]
I didn’t show up to the event expecting to be so turned on. If anything, I expected to be turned off, based on presumptions that were immediately shed within the first five minutes. The power dynamic added to my comfort zone as well, since the women are really the ones in control. SoS events, contrary to former expectations, are just as much (if not, dare I say it, more) about the girl getting off just as much as the guy, and this creates a giving environment that’s, in a sense, more ideal than the gender dynamic in the “real” world. Sex Kitten and Rocco make everyone feel comfortable, and make sure that no one is being disrespectful. Suffice it to say, my first SoS party will not be my last…


[from a couple who attended the Summer Lovin' event]
You had plenty of attractive people, the masseuse and bartenders were very friendly....as a matter of fact, the entire staff was -- from the door man to the hosts. You and Rocco made us feel welcome with your approach and small talk....that was a plus. The venue itself was amazing, even though we never stepped foot out on balcony. The parking right next door was really convenient for us as J was wearing high heels and she didn't have to walk far at all....another big plus. What else?.....let's see.. Oh, the "clothes check" was a great idea. And that porn that was playing was a great choice...J said it turned her on because the chicks were hot and they weren't being manhandled like in most porns. So overall, it was a pleasant environment.


[from a couple who attended the Summer Lovin' event]
The party was great. There were almost and overwhelming amount of really attractive couples. We started the evening with A getting a sensual massage from Valerie.Watching Valerie massage A with her entire body was extremely erotic... A was so worked up after that we went right over to the sex swing(another great addition). A was so wet she actually left a puddle under the swing. We continued to play after that but did find that there were a lot of first timers that were a little reluctant to engage. We did eventually hook up with a very nice couple and A and I did live out many of our fantasies.Thanks again and will will see you soon.


[from a first-timer single female who attended our St. Patty's "Get Lucky" party]
Where do I begin???
I can not describe how much fun I had Friday night and how much it meant to me. I felt like I could really let go and it was all because the two of you are so great at creating an open, encouraging and non-judgmental atmosphere. It felt both liberating and extremely powerful to be so raw, erotic, and instinctual- it was mind-blowing. I am so happy I came (in so many ways ;) ) and especially happy to have stumbled upon that article in Time Out NY which let me to meeting the two of you. 
I  was being genuine when I kept saying how much I adore the two of you. I was equally impressed with you both and you guys made a great impression on me. I am so inspired by your story and by your willingness to engage with the world.


[comment from a couple who attended our St. Patty's "Get Lucky" party]
In two words, “Spectacular Party!”
The atmosphere was on fire. The blog says it all. And as my special woman agreed, the best part was the couples we met. Not the sex with the couples; but just meeting and having such a great time with them... I’ve met other people into the lifestyle but for my girlfriend’s first time experience, the personalities of these couples were off the charts. I’ve been to events before, but for me it was like being a newbie again, because this was my first time going with someone whom I’m so deeply in love with; and I’m every so grateful we got to share this experience with her.


[from a single female who attended our St. Patty's "Get Lucky" party]
You guys are awesome! You do such a good job making people feel comfortable and welcome.  I'm most impressed with how well you balance hosting, and enjoying your own parties.


[from a couple who attended our St. Patty's "Get Lucky" party]
We had an amazing time on Friday. I dare say it was my best experience at a swing party (this after swinging for over 10 years). N had an amazing time and we love the blog.


[from a first-timer couple who attended the Mardi Gras party]

We thought you guys did an amazing job of trying to help people ease into it & bring people together. E says she feels more comfortable about the thought of playing in front of others now than she did before ... it was a good learning experience. Overall it was a cool vibe - glad we could partake. & thanks for being our wingmen lol!