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Upscale Lifestyle Events Behind Closed Doors events are known as the premier "on-premise" lifestyle event in the NY metro area.  Through a careful process of selection, we successfully congregate an amazingly sexy group of young, attractive, open-minded and intelligent people with a common interest -- to explore and indulge their erotic pleasures in a shared space. We are extremely welcoming to beginners and provide the perfect springboard for exploring your sexuality.
Intriguing Locations Behind Closed Doors events take place at the most upscale locations in New York City including primate loft spaces, penthouses, and private clubs.  An important part of producing a sexy soiree is finding a venue which adds to the eroticism. By creating ever-changing, safe, and clean erotic playgrounds, our guests can engage in an unbiased, sensually liberating and respectful atmosphere.
Entertainment Our carefully selected erotic entertainment may include dancers, body artists, sensual body-workers, tantric experts, or lapdance instructors.  These professionals are masters of their respective disciplines and thrill the senses in ways you can't begin to imagine!  The excitment and wonder that result from the incredible entertainment contribute to the full Behind Closed Doors erotic experience.
Adult Film Stars & Celebs Behind Closed Doors has a phenomenal reputation in both the swinging and adult entertainment communities.  Events are often hosted by porn stars like Justine Joli, giving guests a chance to meet and interact with some of the hottest stars in the industry.  We've even had a few surprise mainstream celebrities drop by!

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Q: How long have you been throwing events? A: We have been organizing the hottest events in the NY metro area for approximately four years.


Q: What is the average age of attendees?

A:  BCD attracts a significantly younger crowd as compared with most erotic clubs or parties. The age range of our parties is 20s to 40s; the average age is in the 30s.


Q: How discreet are your parties?

A: Discretion is of the utmost importance to us.  We guarantee that your name, email, etc. will NEVER be revealed to anyone, sold, or otherwise compromised.  In the interest of discretion, you can feel free to use an alias at our events.


Q: Will I be able to find a single female at your parties?

A: Yes, as our events are organized by a woman, we create an atmosphere that is extremely accessible to single women.  We always have single ladies at the events.



Q: What is Swing School?
A: Swing School is an introduction to swinging for beginners presented by SchoolOfSex.  During the first hour of our parties, we hold a session of Swing School.  We discuss various topics including: an introduction into the lifestyle, what to expect at an erotic event, how to interact, commonly used terms, and lots of advice.  Swing School is a fantastic opportunity to meet other beginners -- typically, the couples attending will form a bond and even wind up playing.

Q: How often do you throw parties?

A: Approximately once a month.


Q: Are homosexual or bisexual men welcome to the events?

A: Unfortunately Behind Closed Doors events do not cater to homosexual or bisexual men.  We are developing an even more open-minded event called "Both Ways" for precisely this purpose.


Q: Do you allow single males?

A: No, as a policy we do not permit single males at Behind Closed Doors events. 


Q: Do you have a screening process?

A: Yes, we ask for pictures and statistics to ensure that our guests are height/weight proportionate, attractive, and open minded.  We may also voice verify with the ladies attending, to make sure that they are coming of their own free will and desire.


Q: Do you require everyone to change into towels, or get naked?

A: No!  We believe that fun should happen organically -- and we never force our guests to do ANYTHING they don't want to, including getting naked.


Q: What is the typical attire at your parties?

A: Dress to impress. Our recommendation is to dress up as if you are going to a dance club. Most females wear a sexy top and a skirt and remove clothing or change as the night progresses. If a female is comfortable enough, she is free to wear lingerie.  It is not uncommon for people to completely undress.


Q: If I do not find compatible partners, can I get a refund?

A: Absolutely not. You are paying for admission to a party -- we are not a hookup service. We have a phenomenal record of holding events that attract the best crowd of any swing club or party in the country. However, we can never guarantee that anyone will find what they are looking for. At the very least, you will have a fun night and see a lot of “live porn.”  Our best advice is to have an open mind and always be friendly and outgoing.